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| When A Female to Male HBS Enrolls In A Woman's College |
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| Opinion - Global Warning | |||
| Lisa Jain Thompson | |||
| Saturday, 08 December 2007 20:00 | |||
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Confusing celebrity with living
Springfield, VA, USA. Four characteristics distinguish Barnard College: It is a liberal arts college with a long tradition of excellence; it is part of a great research university; it is in New York City, and it is a college for women [1]. This fall a female to male likely born with Harry Benjamin Syndrome (HBS) enrolled at Barnard, leading to the question
Granted, the man in question is young and still early in transition, but why a woman's college, especially Barnard?
Barnard College is specifically designed for the education of women. Women make up over half the faculty.
Last fall, Raemond Grosz, an early transition female to male (apparently HBS), enrolled at Barnard. Moments into his first year orientation, Grosz remembers thinking:
I'm struck by two things:
Grosz's explanation of why he enrolled seems rather naïve for someone qualified to matriculate at Barnard
Or perhaps it is only a reflection of youth and a somewhat sheltered life. He enrolled at a woman's college which has history of women students who come from socially conservative and well-off families. (Barnard is not Brown, another of the seven sisters).
By the time First Year Orientation was finished, Grosz's female roommate informed him that she was uneasy about sharing a dorm room with him. Barnard College offered Grosz two alternatives:
Single rooms are not available for first year students at Barnard.
At the same time, Grosz was growing more uncomfortable with Barnard
Which, of course, is the point: the rest of the first year class is female, Grosz apparently is an HBS male (and a man who apparently thinks of Grey's Anatomy as a weekly chick flick).
Unable to find a new roommate, and unwilling to remain with his current one, Grosz lived off campus.
The situation was resolved when Grosz transferred to the School of General Studies at Columbia which is affiliated with Barnard.
Grosz said he was surprised by the amount of ignorance he has encountered from Columbia students, saying that he had been called a transvestite by more than one
Grosz, now at Columbia, added that gay and lesbian students at Columbia seem to have a distinct place on campus that transgender students do not.
The confusion between cross-dressers and transgenders on one hand, and HBS men and women on the other is common, one of the fall-outs of lumping everyone under the Big T GBLT umbrella. HBS needs in transition are specific and different from transgenders and cross-dressers as Grosz quickly discovered.
His initial choice of Barnard as his college is questionable and indicative of an HBS male emerging from the transgender community in the early stages of transition. Bernard's admission policy states that a student must be physically a woman to be accepted. Grosz, in his own mind as well as his outward appearance, is male. Since his transition was not yet complete, College policy would have allowed him to remain at Bernard and graduated as a man.
Not that Grosz was comfortable during his short time at Bernard. Simple things such as the silhouettes of women on the Barnard wall, all of which have feminine hairstyles, made him feel he did not belong – he is a guy who felt out of place at a woman's college. Surprise, surprise!
The comments of some of the Barnard and Columbia students and faculty were more direct.
What HBS men and women need most of all is common sense. We cannot just barge into new situations, announce we are HBS, and demand that everyone and everything change to accommodate us. Sometimes the need of the many, exceed the needs of the one.
The best approach is for HBS men and women to work within the system. The radical transgressors among us are a small minority. The rest of us are men and women born with a medical condition we treat during that part of our lives we call transition.
Transition should never be a gauntlet we throw down to challenge the rest of world. If Grosz had thought things through, if he had been better prepared or farther along in transition before he applied to Barnard, all of this could have been avoided, the very proper sensibilities of the Barnard women maintained, and the glare of still another media circus gracefully sidestepped.
And, in the end, don't we all just want is to get on with our lives as men and women and avoid becoming a political cause celebre?
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